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More asking...

Eilidh Milnes - Saturday, July 17, 2010
"Will you marry me?" is possibly one of the most important questions you will ever ask (or be asked.) Your life hinges on the response. Kyle will marry the beautiful Sarah Blum on July 31st in her home town of Fulda. He proposed to the girl of his dreams in style; to find out how simply re-arrange these words: ring, 5*, Venice, luxury, chilled, jacuzzi, champagne! Now doesn't that conjure up a romantic picture. Share their and happiness and savour for a moment...

We asked for help on Friday 9th July. I was due to attend the Urban Heroes Awards at with my friend Khumi Burton. Alas, it was not to be. A traffic accident got in the way. Fortunately, only egos and cars were damaged. But I ran the whole gamut of emotions as the incident unfolded; disappointment, frustration and utter disbelief as the recovery company made it clear that taking us home was not on the agenda.  "You have to speak to your insurers," was the response. What happened to their 5* policy promises?

The driver did eventually agree to take us to the Cottons Hotel. The plan was to ask for the number of a local taxi company from the hotel reception. However, when Eloic Montagnier the manager of Cottons Hotel Knutsford realised our dilemma, he spontaneously offered to arrange a lift. He personally drove us home in his own car; a return journey of some 40 miles. What a kind gesture! Remember we were not guests at the hotel, merely travellers in distress. Eloic takes customer care to a new level. He was paying it forward.


Have I used Cottons Hotel before? Yes. Will I be using the hotel again? You bet! Will I tell my sphere of influence? I am doing so via this broadcast - telling thousands of people across the world. If you are in a position to use this hotel do so. It's great for business meetings, weddings and conferences. Remember to ask for Eloic Montagnier.

I have nominated Eloic for a Wow Award!


Business readers have asked me to highlight their services as a result of the last TCI broadcast. Chris Gibbons of Query Management was the first to contact me. Her business Query Management provides professional credit control and credit management services for small and medium sized businesses. If you need such services, why not check out Chris?


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Ask!

Eilidh Milnes - Saturday, July 10, 2010

      
We have just spent a fabulous weekend at the Goodwood Festival of Speed. Have you ever been to an event that you can look back on and reflect with pure pleasure? Perhaps you'd prefer to go to a music festival such as Glastonbury or attend a world class rugby match or go the world cup; but for this family of petrol heads, Goodwood was our perfect day out. And it is the Siverstone UK F1 weekend... so for us... deep joy!

We attended Goodwood on the corporate day feeling very special and privileged. The moving motor show was a true spectacle. We had been offered this wonderful treat courtesy of the exclusive car manufacturers BMW Alpina. And to make the day even more special, there was a unique track and hill test drive valued at over £1,000 in the brand spanking new B5! How did we come by this amazing experience? Our son Kyle, a besotted B5 owner, contacted Alpina head office in Germany and asked. Wow! And of course there was a fab goody bag and hospitality. Whoohoo! (click the test drive link and share out treat)

You might think Kyle was rather cheeky. However, he was rather bold and prepared to accept rejection. It's amazing what happens when you ask the world to help you - it often hugely surpasses your expectations. What have you asked for recently? What would you really, really like? Well why not trying asking someone to help you get it. I believe you create your own luck in life and you can start today by asking for what you need. Importantly ask yourself, "What can I offer in return to help someone else?"

I asked my speaking colleagues and PSA fellows board members, Alan Stevens  and Will Kintish for help. Both Alan and Will recommended an advanced search on LinkedIn  to help me find business contacts in Australia. Well this is a long story with a short finish - the outcome is this - I currently have at least three more people to meet in Brisbane in September as a result of asking. Hopefully I can develop working relationships with these relative strangers that will allow us to help each other. Do you know anyone in Brisbane, who might like to meet to explore business opportunities? If so, please forward them this email.

These broadcasts often close with, if I can help you in any way, just ask. And Gerry has taken up my offer of assistance. Gerry Lynch is an expert in dealing effectively with staff dismissals. Why not read more and see what Gerry Lynch has has to offer.

Don't miss the next post which will feature Eloic Montagnier the manager of Cottons Hotel Knutsford, who takes customer care to a new dimension...
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And of course if I can help you in any way.........